The Key to Long-Term Success

The Key to Long-Term Success
By: Brian Tracy

Successful people have been studied in depth for more than 100 years. They have been interviewed extensively to determine what it is they do and how they think
that enables them to accomplish so much more than the average person.
In this Newsletter, you learn the most important single factor of long-term
success and how you can build it into your personality and your attitude. You
learn how to virtually guarantee yourself a great future.

The Harvard Discovery on Success
In 1970, sociologist Dr. Edward Banfield of Harvard University wrote a book
entitled The Unheavenly City. He described one of the most profound studies on
success and priority setting ever conducted.

Banfield's goal was to find out how and why some people became financially
independent during the course of their working lifetimes. He started off
convinced that the answer to this question would be found in factors such as
family background, education, intelligence, influential contacts, or some other
concrete factor. What he finally discovered was that the major reason for
success in life was a particular attitude of mind.

Develop Long Time Perspective
Banfield called this attitude "long time perspective. " He said that men and
women who were the most successful in life and the most likely to move up
economically were those who took the future into consideration with every
decision they made in the present. He found that the longer the period of time a
person took into consideration while planning and acting, the more likely it was
that he would achieve greatly during his career.

For example, one of the reasons your family doctor is among the most respected
people in America is because he or she has invested many years of hard work and
study to finally earn the right to practice medicine. After university courses,
internship, residency and practical training, a doctor may be more than 30 years
old before he or she is capable of earning a good living. But from that point
onward, these men and women are some of the most respected and most successful
professional people in any society. They had long time perspectives.

Measure the Potential Future Impact
The key to success in setting priorities is having a long time perspective. You
can tell how important something is today by measuring its potential future
impact on your life.

For example, if you come home from work at night and choose to play with your
children or spend time with your spouse, rather than watch TV or read the paper,
you have a long time perspective. You know that investing time in the health and
happiness of your children and your spouse is a very valuable, high-priority use
of time. The potential future impact of quality time with your family is very
high.

If you take additional courses in the evening to upgrade your skills and make
yourself more valuable to your employer, you're acting with a long time
perspective. Learning something practical and useful can have a long-term effect
on your career.

Practice Delayed Gratification
Economists say that the inability to delay gratification- that is, the natural
tendency of individuals to spend everything they earn plus a little bit more,
and the mind-set of doing what is fun, easy and enjoyable-is the primary cause
of economic and personal failure in life. On the other hand, disciplining
yourself to do what you know is right and important, although difficult, is the
highroad to pride, self-esteem and personal satisfaction.

The long term comes soon enough, and every sacrifice that you make today will be
rewarded with compound interest in the great future that lies ahead for you.

Action Exercises
Here are three steps you can take immediately to put these ideas into action.

First, think long-term. Sit down today and write out a description of your ideal
life ten and twenty years into the future. This automatically develops
longer-time perspective.

Second, look at everything you do in terms of its long-term potential impact on
your life. Do more things that have greater long-term value to you.

Third, develop the habit of delaying gratification in small things, small
expenditures, small pleasures, so that you can enjoy greater rewards and greater
satisfaction in the future.

I just wish, I hope not

i just wish that they don't say things in a harshly manner.
i just wish that they be sensitive enough to feel their environment.
i just wish that they be polite and courteous and full of respect when approaching each other.
i just wish that they learn to work professional.
i just wish that they love their job wholeheartedly

sadly to say that before our problem is manpower but now we have hired professional people who can do their job well done then all they have to do is to support him or her in every way they can.

people are too stupid and got that crab mentality
they aren't aware that we should be in full harmony and cooperation in the work place
to get the job done , to target the market, to entice more clients and big projects.

too stupid
too harsh
too idealistic but not realistic
too envious
too insecure
too volatile

are you one of them? i hope not.

Swimming Skills Required

I really don't know how to swim? Yesterday, I was invited to a party. Actually it's a kiddie party - swimming/bbq fellowship hahahhaha. My husband and I we're looking at the invited kids while they are swimming and he told me "Look at that kid she knows how to swim. You're just like Jean (one of the kids there) who wiggle so much on the water but not reaching any point." I was really disappointed and did never expected that to hear from him, I just looked at him and say "Well, they cannot do programming naman. That's not a requirement. " And he responded "It is a requirement." While he keeps on repeating those words, I am telling to myself "I dont't care if I don't know how to swim, anyway I'm not the only one who really don't know how to swim in the whole universe." And I just leave him alone.

I was really insulted and I didn't feel ok for just a few minutes. But then I started telling and dictating my mind "Who cares if I don't swim? I can earn money even if I don't know how to." Minsan buti pa ang ibang tao marunong magbigay ng maayos na comment sa isang maayos na paraan. Ewan ko ba. Sana parehas na lang sila.